Last week something happened in school that got me thinking quite a lot about how we see failure. What is failure to us and why are we so scared of it? Yes, we are teachers and yes, we have a high responsibility, especially when teaching children, but we are also only human and all we can do is to do our best and learn from our mistakes to do it better next time. I was working in the teachers’ lounge when one of the teachers I coach” came in and started crying. I knew what happened, because half an hour earlier, there was this little 3 year old guy who came to us crying because he fell off a chair (by the way, he is doing great, it was just the first shock). As a side note: when little children cry, the best method to calm them down is to acknowledge their pein, but not for a long time. The best way is to completely change the topic to something unexpected, for example "what did you do yesterday or what did you eat today". And then have a conversation about it.